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NOTE

This contains a massive amount of material, pick and choose what you need. We first look at alcohol and then have a quick look at drugs. The excluded section has additional material on these topics.

OUTLINE

Session to take a look at alcohol, drugs and what the Bible has to say as many young people will have drunk alcohol, got drunk, taken drugs or have been tempted to do so. This focuses very much on alcohol but the principles are the same for drugs.

INTRO

Ask people what they think about alcohol and getting drunk. Then ask about drugs. What do their parents, guardians or other adults believe? Do they know the recommended weekly limit for drinking alcohol? Do they know what this means in practice?

FACTS

For the facts on effects of alcohol, click here to view the Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

There is also a drug and alcohol quiz, click here for that.

Government figures (Sept 2003) point out that alcohol abuse costs the country £20 billion per year. There is a cost of £6.1bn to employers through lost work time etc. 17 million work days are lost each year due to alcohol. 1 in 5 women binge drink, 4 in 10 blokes binge drink. The amount that 16 year-olds drink is twice that of 10 years ago.

ESSENTIALS AND NEW INFO

Many people believe that now we have pubs open longer, we'll see less binge drinking and be more like the continent of Europe where there appears to be far less alcohol related disorder like we see in our towns and cities weekly.

However, in Ireland, where drinking is far more of a culture and pubs can open all hours, the rules were tightened having been loosened. Pubs have to be shut by 11.30pm, there will be no happy hours and places that encourage heavy drinking will be prosecuted.

The truth is that having pubs open longer has not worked. It merely increases amounts of alcohol drunk. In places like Nottingham it has caused a large increase in alcohol related incidents and violence, according to the police.

The truth is that it's the heart that needs changing, not laws. It is Jesus that is needed, not alcohol.

Other people like to have a drink because it makes them feel more confident, relaxed, happy, chilled out. Again, the truth is that something is going on if we are not able to be ourselves without alcohol. If someone need alcohol to 'be themselves' then who are they normally? It speaks more of underlying issues that are in all of us, and little about the perceived benefit of alcohol.

OUR CHURCHES

Why is it that pubs are more popular than churches? I can think of a few reasons. In fact, I quite understand when some of the young people I work with would rather be at the pub or club than in church.

1. They are more exciting and more fun
2. There are 'real' people there, not always pretending to be 'religious'
3. People feel alienated by churches despite the great truth about Jesus
4. Our churches are not welcoming and accepting as they should be
5. We may be doing church wrong, outside-in rather than inside-out
6. Church buildings and services are often un-inspiring, irrelevant, distant, too religious, too dull!
7. Churches aren't part of the community but merely located in a community
8. There is also evil spiritual opposition in society to church

What can we do to make churches the centre of the community, based around Jesus - and not pubs as the centre, based around alcohol?

ANY STORIES OF ALCOHOL - Personal & true stories you may have..

For example, my dad was told clearly by God to stop drinking when he became a Christian. He was actually blocked getting into a pub by a force he didn't initially understand but now knows was the Holy Spirit.

For myself, I went out drinking a lot, got involved with football hooligans and got into a fair bit of trouble. The only way God brought me out (though I didn't realise it was God at the time) was by me being attacked in a club and then by a gang. After I was attacked in a club, 2 older football hooligans I knew went back and probably did some very serious damage. I decided things had to change.

More recently I went to a mate's wedding in Canada. As part of the fun and games my mate had a stag night. I determined with God's help I wouldn't drink loads but make a stand as a Christian. When mocked my a local who was wasted I told him to get lost politely and refused the offer of another pint! I was with another Christian who was drinking heavily. He was accused of hypocrisy by other lads who pointed to me and said 'At least Steve does what he believes.' Standing out for God makes you a target but it does impact people

BIBLE STORIES - Do people know of any? Here's two..

1. Genesis 9.20-25. Noah became a farmer, planted a vineyard and got drunk ending up naked on his bed. Ham, the youngest son discovered him naked and told his brothers Shem and Japeth who got a blanket, walked backwards into Noah's tent and put the blanket over him. Noah woke up, presumably hungover and cursed Ham and blessed Shem and Japeth (Abraham is in the lineage from Shem, see Genesis 11.26)

2. John 2.1-11, the Wedding at Cana where Jesus turned water into wine. Jesus was obedient to his mother, her faith in him was demonstrated and as verse 11 says, 'There he showed his glory and his followers believed in him.' (Youth Bible)

Question: What can we learn from these stories?

PROVERBS - On alcohol:

Proverbs 20.1, 'Wine is a mocker and beer is a brawler..'

Proverbs 23.20-21, 'Don't drink too much wine or eat too much food. Those who drink and eat too much become poor.'

BIBLE TEACHING

The Bible doesn't say completely cut out alcohol, though many people feel that is the Godly thing to do. We will see that there are also higher standards for leaders. The Bible offers alternatives. It shows the negative impact alcohol can have and encourages us into a new way.. let's dive deep into the Word..

Ephesians 5.18 - Do not get drunk on too much wine which will ruin you - but instead be filled with the Holy Spirit (in context of living in the light of Christ).

Point - Too much wine messes you up so steer clear and be filled with another kind of Spirit!! Being drunk suggests that you are not and cannot be filled with the Holy Spirit. Alcoholism can be a curse. There may be times that being regularly drunk suggests something negatively spiritual as the equivalent is being filled with the Spirit.

Romans 13.13-14 - Live in a right way, like people who belong to the day.. don't have wild parties or get drunk.. but clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ and forget about satisfying the sinful self

Galatians 5.19, 21 - The wrong things from the sinful self include.. being drunk, having wild and wasteful parties..

Romans 13.13-14 - Live in a right way, like people who belong to the day.. don't have wild parties or get drunk.. but clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ and forget about satisfying the sinful self

Point - Getting drunk is in a list of sins. Getting drunk is about satisfying the sinful self. Don't do it. The alternative is living right, in the light, being clothed with Jesus

1 Peter 4.2-3 - Change your lives. Do what God wants. In the past you did the evil things non-believers want. You were guilty of sexual sins, evil desires, getting drunk, wild and drunken parties and hateful idol worship

Point - Getting drunk is in the same list as worshiping an idol. Is getting drunk simply the worship of alcohol? getting drunk is associated with a need to change. Being drunk is described as being something evil

Luke 21.34 - Be careful not to spend your time feasting, drinking or worrying about worldly things.. but be living ready for Jesus

Point - Drinking is seen as an unspiritual act. This passage from Jesus and others notes that being truly spiritual for God involves different behaviour.

LEADERSHIP

1 Timothy 3.3 and Titus 1.7. In these passages we see the standards required of elders, spiritual leaders of churches. Do not drink too much wine is the advice. Above all, they are the church leaders and must be respected. There must be a higher standard of right living and an integrity above question. Interestingly in Titus, the verses before saying don't drink too much talk about an elder not getting into fights or getting angry - 2 effects that alcohol can have.

WARNINGS

These come from Paul. In 1 Corinthians 5.1, Paul warns the believers not to eat with those who claim to be believers but who sin by '.. being greedy.. getting drunk.. cheating people.' In 1 Corinthians 6.10 Paul warns that people who do wrong won't inherit God's Kingdom - these people include those who are greedy or get drunk..

BEING FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT

As suggested in Ephesians 5.18 being drunk can produce a similar effect to the Holy Spirit. Be careful before you dismiss out of hand some of the more unusual moves of the Spirit of God. In Acts 2.15 after the apostles had been filled with the Spirit they were obviously acting in a kind of mad way as people thought they were drunk! Peter had to reassure the onlookers with a bit of humour - they're not drunk, it's only 9am!

THE POSITIVE SIDE

There can be a positive side to having a drink. Jesus seems to have enjoyed going to social events and enjoying himself. Wine often played a major part at these events. In Matthew 11.19, there was criticism of Jesus - '..look at him, he drinks too much wine and is a friend of tax collectors and sinners..' Was the wine non-alcoholic? I don't know! Remember also that Jesus was often accused of doing things he didn't do

In 1 Timothy 5.33, Paul suggests to Timothy that he drinks a little wine for the stomach. Today I guess we'd take Rennies or something! This does suggest, however, that Timothy did not normally drink at all!!

ANOTHER PERSONAL TOUCH

One of the things that bound me with my buddies from Canada was sitting on my mate's decking before the wedding at night, chilling with a bottle of beer. Obviously I could've sat there with a coffee but the point was that I was joining them on their territory and entering into it some way - as I do when I meet non-Christian mates at the pub. The thing is God's made me strong enough to say 1 pint or bottle (if that) and that's enough. We must be careful if we're not strong here.

GOD'S LOVE

Song of Songs/Solomon is obviously a story of two lovers and also a reflection of Jesus' love for his church. In 1.2, we read that 'Your love is better than wine.' And surely this sums it all up. God's love is better than alcohol and drugs. Ephesians 5.18 encourages us to be continually filled with the Holy Spirit, which is eternal rather than the next party, which is temporary! Does being drunk tally with the fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5.22-23?! Remember, you don't want to do anything which makes you less fired up for God!!

STEPS TO HEALING AND WHOLENESS

As with other issues, there is a real need for some people to make significant changes in their lives away from abuse of, or addiction to, alcohol. The power of Jesus, through the Holy Spirit, allied with the support of the body of Christ is the place for healing, wholeness, transformation and change.

There are some ways and means to change:

1. Recognising there is a problem. Telling someone and desiring to make a change. Asking Jesus for his help daily.
2. Contacting a support group such as Alcoholics Anonymous and becoming accountable to and for others.
3. Finding acceptance in God's love for you, demonstrated within the body of a local church.
4. Recognising and dealing with (maybe with professional help), the issues that cause your problems.
5. Learning that God wants and is able to meet your needs and bring healing to your whole self.

For more support and advice please visit these resources among others:

- HopeUK - website of Christian organisation dealing with drug and alcohol issues

- Life For The World - website of Christian organisation giving hope and help for victims of drug abuse

- Look in the local paper, Citizens Advice Bureau, Yellow Pages for 'alcohol support services' (such as Alcoholics Anonymous). Many areas have resources for young people specifically, as well as for people generally.

WEEDS

Some people say that we can smoke Cannabis because God made all things, plants etc. Yes God did make the world. But let's not forget that there are weeds that have grown up because of our sin.

ILLEGAL DRUGS

I was in the drugs scene was I was a bit younger and God brought me out of that and the football hooligan scene too. If you do have drugs questions, please contact me and I will try to signpost you.

Cannabis is addictive - psychologically. It also causes long-term damage that is only now being recognised by studies. Only a small percentage of young people will go on to use harder drugs from cannabis use. Most realise the immense dangers from cocaine, crack, heroin. Only a few use speed, ecstasy and LSD etc. Many young people will grow out of drug use. Not all, however.

Be aware of the signs of drug use. Young people may be hyper, full of energy, have large pupils, be excessively friendly, excessively spun out, not able to focus effectively and so on. On harder drugs, some may be hostile or agitated. Be aware of the fact that just because they have taken drugs, it's not the end of the world, it's often not as bad as it sounds.

Nevertheless, destructive drugs are not from God! Be aware, balanced and have a strategy. For example, what would you do if you found young people taking cannabis on church property?

Specialist drugs help should be accessed via local drugs project, many cities have youth drugs workers. If not, contact the agency. There are Christians involved in this area - for example, HOPEUK

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